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[antiendovents]

it makes me sick how many "create a headmate/alter" blogs i see. it like, gives me such a feeling i cant describe.

YEAH. I get what you mean 100%, they're very sickening. It just shows like, how endos really think this disorder is a damn game

[system-hottakes]

hot take: being anti-endo and exclusionary towards them is actually so fucking sexy.

Yes! All anti endos come here i'm giving you a kiss /plat

[antiendofictives]

Hey, just checking in. You& guys okay?

-🎀 from🧋sys

hey, we're doing okay, sort of. It's complicated but we're doing better than before, still working out posting schedules, so it's probably gonna be a while before this blog gets any activity, we just about started posting on @antiendovents

Thank you for asking

[system-hottakes]

systems should be allowed to let their littles do adult things if they want . littles are different for every system and there is no one size fits all for how you should treat littles

Gotta agree there. Not every little is actually mentally a child, sometimes the age is just a feeling or appearance thing rather than a mental thing and you really shouldn't be trying to control others' systems

[system-hottakes]

Hot take that shouldn't be a hot take but I still see it thrown around in sys spaces

Number names should not be kept purely to systems who have been through OEA. People could have a number of reasons to use them

Not to mention, that makes it easy to target OEA if people are being shitty. Just my opinion tho

Nod, nod. I think its stupid to say "you can only use these names if you've been through this kind of trauma" because just.. what. Number names weren't invented by programmers, people have always used numbers as names and you can't just gatekeep that shit. Also like you said, anon, it could and 100% will be dangerous. People will be able to spot OEA systems way easier and be able to target them

[antiendovents]

is it just me who kinda gets mad that people call blatant ableism 'syscourse'

like I fear this is a little bit bigger from a lil debate

Oh don't worry, its not just you. It pisses me the hell off too, when people frame calling out ableism as just "discourse" it irritates me. Like this is way more than discourse, sorry

[system-hottakes]

a system not aiming for an official diagnosis isnt a bad thing imo!! it could be for medical trauma, it could be because doctors often take people less seriously the worse mental stuff they have.

Nod, there are SO many reasons why someone may or may not want to get a diagnosis, and that's valid. As long as they do their research and shit everything is cool

[system-hottakes]

Idk if it's a hot take

But its anti recovery to tell someone else how they should handle their mental illness, you cant dictate someone elses healing journey or lack thereof.

-pantheon

NOD NOD !! THIS 100%